Drops of Torah from our members

 DROPS OF TORAH FROM OUR MEMBERS

We all have the capacity to share our wisdom and reflections about the Torah texts we read each week. The Congregation Beth Israel Drops of Torah project provides an opportunity for people to share a brief reflection or short insight about the week's Torah portion. These short pieces are written by our members with support from our rabbis (as needed). Consider signing up for a drop of Torah. For more information, contact Rabbi Nathan Martin rabbinathan@bethisraelmedia.org

  1.  Beresheit by Linda Cohen
  2. Noah by the Sibley Horwitz family
  3. Lekh lekha by Lynn Cashell
  4. Vayera by Larry and Marion Hamermesh
  5. Hayyei Sarah by Sharon Kleban
  6. Toledot by Jeff Jarvis
  7. Vayetze by Michael Fishkow
  8. Vayishlach by Julie Mayer
  9. Vayeshev
  10. Miketz by Hadassah Weinmartin and her dad
  11. Vayigash by R. Helen Plotkin
  12. Vayehi by Benjamin Alouf
  13. Shemot by Sharon Boyd
  14. Va-era by Anita Weber
  15. Bo by Ronnie Good
  16. Beshallach by Joyce Romoff
  17. Yitro by Jackie Gelman
  18. Mishpatim by Dina Jacobs
  19. Terumah by Nathan Sepinwall
  20. Tetzaveh by Lois Deutsch
  21. Ki Tissa by Lisa and Matt deCamp
  22. Vayakhel by Abby Grin
  23. Pekudei by Zoe Blank
 Beresheit (Genesis 4:19-5:11) by Linda Cohen "Early Machismo"
Before I read this portion, I had never heard of Lamech, a descendent of Cain.  Given his attitude and behavior, I’m glad that Lamech didn’t have a starring role in the history of our people:
And Lamech said to his wives, “Adah and Zillah, hear my voice: O wives of Lamech, give ear to my speech. I have slain a man for wounding me. And a lad for bruising me. If Cain is avenged sevenfold. Then Lamech seventy-sevenfold (4:23-24).”  
You could call this machismo. Or you could call it psychopathy. Here is a man who believes that it’s acceptable to kill people for wounding or even bruising him (and a lad, at that). And then he brags that he will avenge wrongs seventy-seven fold, even more brutally than his ancestor, Cain.  He is a tyrant, with no sense of compassion or justice.  What could we possible learn from this, besides how not to be?
My take-away is twofold. Unfortunately, brutal men still exist today, some as rulers of countries.  Anyone with such an egotistical need for vengeance is a threat to justice and humanity. We must use our resources to reduce the power of such men. Secondly, we all get angry and need constructive ways to channel this emotion. We need to notice and attend to any traces of our own inner Lamech, stirrings of anger which call out for violence or revenge. If we are wronged we deserve to seek justice, and we may need to set firm boundaries, but vengeance to wound those who hurt us is not a route to inner peace or greater humanity. (Return to top.)
 
Noah (Genesis 10:21-11:13) by the Sibley Horwitz Family "Human Pride and Babel"

In the Tower of Babel story, the peoples of the Earth united to build a very tall Tower of brick and bitumen, but God stopped its construction--claiming it was an example of humans’ pride.  “Nothing will be out of their reach,” God harrumphed, seeing the tower as representing an arrogant wish to approach heavenly majesty.
Dante, too, agreed that the Tower of Babel was an example of human pride--and thus, sinful--and in his Purgatorio, he chose a Mountain with different stages of sinful behavior to represent Purgatory, the first Terrace of which he called Pride...

As a result of God’s reactive response to the Tower in Genesis, scattering the people to winds, they developed different languages, different cultures, and could no longer unify in the same way to make such a tower, not for many centuries.   

Perhaps this was also God’s attempt to create many different peoples so there would be one, Jewish people that God could “choose”--? (That is, until Mordecai Kaplan decided we didn’t need that particular qualifier.) Or was it the attempt by human authorities to keep subject peoples from challenging them by being too ambitious? Citing God’s potential wrath might be an effective way to keep people submissive..

We now have under construction the Jeddah Tower in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia--the first building that will be 1 kilometer (more than 3200 feet) tall. An American architect has built it--and is making efforts to ensure that those on the top stories don’t get seasick on windy days..

So we have a number of different ways to understand this passage.  An example of the harm of human pride; unnecessary destruction by an over-reactive God, amplified by authoritarian leaders; a desire for human diversity of cultures; a challenge for humans to learn to work together without rancor.  (Return to top.)

 
Lekh Lekha (Genesis 16:1-17:6) by Lynn Cashell "When to Listen"

In Genesis 16:1-17:6 we are confronted with Sarai’s conflict with Hagar, her maidservant. Since Abram and Sarai have no children, Hagar is offered to Abram as his concubine and becomes pregnant. While Sarai initiated this relationship, she treats Hagar harshly, becomes jealous, and Hagar runs away.

Both of these women faced difficult situations. Sarai turned to Abram who told her to deal with it herself and Hagar fled. When we face difficult situations, we often turn to the people in our lives whom we trust and respect for guidance. Sometimes we choose not to share our problems and run away. In this piece, Sarai shared her concern, yet was rebuked, so her anger escalated. Hagar fled, yet was met by an angel of God who told her to return and face her difficulty and she would be rewarded. 

When we seek answers from those in our lives, we are faced with the decision to accept or reject them. Often, we are not seeking advice or counsel, yet it comes to us. In both cases, we have the choice to listen to the voices around us and decide how to move forward.  (Return to top.)

 Vayera (Genesis 21:5-27) by Larry and Marion Hammermesh

Abraham's casting out Hagar and Ishmael raises an interesting question about words and deeds.  G!d tells Abraham to support Sarah's desire to disinherit Ishmael and continue Abraham's line through Isaac, raising Isaac above his half-brother. Yet G!d acknowledges that Ishmael is Abraham's seed and promises to make a nation of him. In the end is Ishmael's fate really that different from his brother's?

At Abraham's death,  just as Sarah demanded, Isaac is Abraham's sole heir. Yet, Ishmael, along with the other sons of Abraham's concubines, had received "gifts" from his father before his death. In the end, is Ishmael's fate really that different from his brother's?

The language and social construct of offspring continuing the line is different from that of being made a nation. Yet Isaac and Ishmael, both of whom are Abraham's seed, produce nations which are both descended from Abraham. 

The language and social construct of inheritance is different from that of gifts received from someone still alive. Yet Isaac and Ishmael both receive material wealth from their father.

Abraham learned an interesting lesson from G!d about holding two truths simultaneously. Your words can satisfy the expectations of the received tradition without actually privileging one person or group over another. 

On the one hand, this parshah begins to establish the line of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob - the line of our Israelite nation. On the other hand,  G!d hears and responds to Ishmael's cries in the wilderness.  Isaac and Ishmael, once forcibly estranged, come together as brothers to bury their father. In the end, Isaac and Ishmael must both be seen as children of G!d.  (Return to top.)

 Hayyei Sarah (Genesis 24:53-64) by Sharon Kleban

The parsha Chayei Sarah begins with the death of Sarah and introduces Rebecca.  I see Rebecca's story as the next Lech Lecha in Genesis.  However, God does not tell her to leave her homeland as God told Abraham, nor does her employer tell her to leave her home as Abraham told Hagar.  Instead, Rebecca's mother and brother try to keep her home longer and Rebecca chooses to leave with Abraham's servant Eliezer right away in order to marry Isaac whom she does not know.  It reminds me of Abraham going into the wilderness to find a place God would show him.  Rebecca is introduced with a demonstration of her kindness, not a general statement of her goodness.  Is this an ancient hint that women have to do twice as much for half the recognition?  Rebecca is a person of independence and action and is able to make tough decisions.  Traditional rabbis considered Isaac the weakest of the patriarchs, but perhaps that is because he had the strongest and most pro-active wife.  (Return to top.)

 Toldot (Genesis 27:28-39) by Jeff Jarvis

When I read this section of Torah I was remind of how we sometimes get so tied into what we want that we never really open our eyes to the reality of a situation. Within a very short time frame everyone in this story knows that a deception has occurred. How often do we find ourselves in a place where we are surprised by peoples responses when we could have easily predicted it had we simply opened our eyes and looked around.  (Return to top.)

 Vayetze (Genesis 31:1-21) by Michael Fishkow

In Genesis 31: 1-24, Jacob decides to flee after laboring 20 years under difficult and ever-changing terms imposed by Laban. Recall that Jacob labored for seven years so that he could marry Rachel. Then, Laban substituted Leah for Rachel on the wedding night, so Jacob had to labor another seven years to finally marry Rachel. Jacob then labored another six years for the flock, during which Laban changed his wages time and again.

What does it take to finally trigger the decision to extract ourselves from a difficult situation such as a toxic job or bad relationship?  For Jacob it was easy -- Then the LORD told Jacob, “Return to the land of your fathers where you were born, and I will be with you”.

Interestingly, when Jacob confers with Leah and Rachel, he doesn’t use the “God told me to go” as the rationale for his decision.  Instead he recounts how he worked hard and dealt with Laban in good faith despite Laban’s trickery. As if to underscore the uncertainty of the decision, Jacob tells his wives that he had a dream where it was revealed that God was aware of Laban’s deceptions and had intervened to make Jacob wealthy.  Rachel and Leah told Jacob they supported his decision and acknowledged they were unlikely to realize an inheritance from Laban which may have been a concern.

In order to extract ourselves from challenging situations, perhaps we need not only respond to our inner intuition (our God voice?) but we also need to hear ourselves explain our rationale to those close to us and get their assessment of associated impacts.  In that way we become more comfortable with our decision. While there will always be uncertainty, we move forward with hope that acting in good faith will be reciprocated.  (Return to top.)

 Vayishlach (Genesis 35:12-36:7) by Julie Mayer

This week’s Torah section which includes a description of Isaac’s death and an accounting of Jacob’s children  and the coming holiday season bring up how important to our identities throughout our lives it is to be part of a family (as well as a community). This time of year, we may feel grateful to have our parents, siblings and children gathered around us for the holidays. We might also feel stressed by high expectations, eagerness to connect and worries about people getting along with one another. It’s also a time when we tend to keenly miss those family members who are no longer with us or those who are far away and cannot join us. Being with family can also bring up painful experiences such as old inequities and competitions long gone. May we all remember to bring mindful compassion with us as we navigate our family (and community) interactions. And may we lovingly reflect on both our losses and the ways in which we are fortunate.  (Return to top.)

 Miketz (Genesis 43:11-29) by Hadassah Weinmartin & her dad
In this week’s parshah - the Joseph story - we find the brothers returning to Egypt filled with gifts to try to curry Joseph’s favor. Nowadays, we also find that people spend money to try to buy each other’s favor - whether it’s buying dessert for a friend, or a lobbyist spending money on lavish gifts for a congressman. We know that Joseph didn’t really want gifts; he wanted connection to his brothers and to heal past wounds. Since we are in the gift giving season, maybe we can try to pay special attention to the gifts of the heart that we give each other that build real connection between us.  (Return to top.)
 
 Vayigash (Genesis ) by R. Helen Plotkin

One might say that this week’s portion is the culmination of the book of Genesis. After creating the world, God checks out. It does not go well. There is fratricide, rebellion, violence, and depravity. God figures out that there needs to be a relationship with the inhabitants of the earth. So God makes friends with one guy: Abraham. In the next generation, God picks one brother and makes friends with him: Isaac. In the next generation, God picks one of Isaac’s two sons: Jacob, aka Israel. In the next generation, it looks like it’s going to go the same way: Joseph is the favorite of his father, and of God. But then, in the first sentence of our portion, “Va-yigash Y’hudah - Judah approached” his brother Joseph. What follows is a reconciliation of brothers that results in a new concept: all the “children of Israel/Jacob” are going to be part of the covenant with God. Now the stage is set for the book of Exodus, in which the Children of Israel will grow from a family to a nation.  (Return to top.)

 Vayehi (Genesis 49:27-50:8) by Benjamin Alouf

Jacob came to Egypt as a group of 70 persons, a notably “small group”. The initial reason was due to famine in Canaan and the finding that Joseph was alive and living in Egypt where thanks to his foresight, food was stored and available during this famine. Had there not been a famine, had Joseph not had the premonition and become a prominent member of Pharaoh’s court, the move may never have occurred.

It would seem as if Jacob found himself in some fortuitous circumstances. Beneath that surface, one has to see it in the context of initially living a life where to the best of his knowledge, his eldest son, Joseph, was no longer alive. He is also a refugee from his land, which has become inhospitable, arriving by caravan while being welcomed and greeted with open arms.

People moving away from their homeland frequently do it out of necessity. Economic prosperity, greater personal opportunities or opportunities for dependents, the need to feel safe and free from persecution. The assumptions are frequently made that such migrations are done without remorse, without a sense of nostalgia and with a strong sense of good riddance. But from personal experience, and from shared experience of other migrants, even from some quite oppressive conditions, there is a longing for home if one defines it as a place of origin. Indeed for immigrants who call their adopted countries home, they are frequently jeered at to go home. For them, the place of origin is home but they are also adapting to their new home. It is a complex and conflicting relationship they have. Some assimilate successfully; some remain isolated and seclude themselves with a tightknit community that leaves little exposure and adaptability to their new home. They never feel connected, they never feel at home.

Jacob requested to return and be buried with his family and loved ones in Canaan, his place of origin, and his home. For him, as is true for so many millions of people, home was defined by the circumstances he was in. In Egypt, where his people can be safe and prosper, it was home. At his death, home became his place of origin. Neither is paramount to the other or necessarily takes precedence. It is conditional and situational. Like for so many of us that migrate from country to country, city to city, school to school, job to job, thriving and succeeding are predicated on being able to appreciate the portability of what is home and adapt to where we are at the moment without ever forgetting where we came from.  (Return to top.)

 Shemot (Exodus 4:18-5:5) by Sharon Boyd

In this parsha, Zipporah, her husband Moses and their family are following G-d’s command and journeying to Egypt, where Moses is instructed to demand that Pharoah release the Israelites. Even before the hardships of the conflict with Pharaoh, there was some trouble along the way for Moses and his family. During their journey, G-d sought to kill either Moses or one of his sons. (The pronouns that are used in the parsha leave G-d's intended victim up for interpretation.)  Moses’ wife Zipporah, aware that her firstborn son had not been circumcised, took matters into her own hands and hastily performed the act, using the only available instrument- a sharp rock.  This act appeased G-d.

Zipporah intuited that the motivation behind G-d's murderous intent was to show that His covenant of circumcision with the Israelites was NON-optional.  Zipporah trusted her judgment and acted upon her own counsel, which may be considered extraordinary, given the extremity of the circumstances. Zipporah and Moses set a brave example in which they had to be cruel to be kind.  G-d as a parent to Moshe and Zipporah makes them do something that is difficult, that they are not sure is the right answer, and that will make themselves and their sons temporarily very unhappy. Why? It seems that G-d likes backing people up against a wall to test their mettle. Does it over and over again. Not the easiest parent to deal with. But also because we have to trust that G-d is wiser and has our best interests at heart, despite our own misgivings. Similarly, as our own children get older, we sometimes have to act in ways that run counter to our nurturing instincts in order to best prepare them for their eventual independence, even if it means allowing them to experience harsh, even preventable, consequences.

With any luck, our life encounters will not necessitate us having to grab the nearest sharp rock in order to perform an ad hoc circumcision on a grown child! Yet, may we have the wisdom and strength to meet the challenges that arise as we face the uncertainty and discomfort of actively encouraging our own children’s emancipation from the protective shelter of our homes and influence.  (Return to top.)

 Va-era (Exodus 9:1-16) by Anita Weber

If we think about the plagues as a whole the narrative has three overarching themes: increasing intensity from first to last, spreading out to include the entire land and death in every family, and the powerlessness of the Pharaoh. The sixth plague (boils) shows this same pattern: (1) it affects every human and beast (more intense than previous plagues), (2) it spreads to strike the Egyptians, (3) the powerlessness of Pharaoh.

For the first time in the story God stiffens Pharaoh’s heart (Ex 9:12) - an extraordinary statement! The ruler of the strongest country in the civilized world, a god to his subjects, is a tool in God’s hand. But even as Pharaoh is powerless to change, other Egyptians are persuaded as the plagues progress -- the magicians, some of the courtiers, and finally, after the tenth plague, all of the courtiers and all of the people.

There are at least three audiences of the contest between God and Pharaoh: First are the courtiers and people of Egypt who tell the Israelites to go, and even finance their journey! Second are the Israelites, who are still unfamiliar with El Shaddai, the mountain god from somewhere in the Sinai who, under a new name, is sending Moses and Aaron and them from slavery, and who can stand up and overcome the Egyptian deities. The third audience, outside the story, is perhaps the most important. It includes the Israelites of the southern and northern Kingdoms who told the story of the Exodus every year at Passover. It includes the Jews of the Diaspora who wrote the story down in the Torah. And finally it includes the Christians and Muslims around the world who, along with the Jews, read and reread the story as their own. The exodus story can be thus understood as the introduction of ethical monotheism to the world stage.  (Return to top.)

 Bo (Exodus 12:29-42) by Ronnie Good

This week’s Torah reading describes the final plague of the ten plagues - the killing of the firstborn - and Israel’s subsequent rapid Exodus from Egypt. Many in history have puzzled around the seeming unfairness of this plague (and the plagues in general); it seems like collective punishment as a response to Pharaoh’s stubbornness. I’m not sure that I have a good answer to this issue, but I did hear a quote on a radio show the other day that said "Jews may not believe in God but reserve the right to be mad at God.” While we may not ever know the full reason why about the ten plagues, we do know that innocents today are constantly affected by violence and natural disasters that plague our world. May we use some of our anger - at God or at the world - to motivate us to act for peace, healing, and restoration and not become stuck in cynicism. (Return to top.)

Beshallah (Exodus 14:26 - 17:16) by Joyce Romoff

The story so far; the Israelite slaves and a mixed multitude of Egyptians, led by Moses, Aaron and Miriam, have just been freed by Pharaoh and are on the shore of the Sea of Reeds wondering how to cross. They turn around to see Pharaoh’s 600 chariots in full pursuit. The Sea’s in front of them; the soldiers behind. Now what?

In print, Beshallach is one of the most beautiful looking parshas in the Torah. Starting with Shemot 15:1, the Torah script forms wonderous waves, visually emphasizing Moses’ and the Israelites’ song to Adonai; “(the Lord) has triumphed gloriously (over the Egyptians); horse and driver He has hurled into the sea.” The script also looks like the wall of water that sheltered the Israelites but crashed down on the Egyptians. Through verse 20, the Torah’s waves celebrate the victory over Pharaoh’s army which resulted in all Egyptians, except possibly Pharaoh, either being cast “into the depths like a stone” or being washed up, dead, on the opposite beach, in full view of Israelite men, women and children. This was to prove, if more proof was needed, that Adonai triumphed over the enemy. Naturally, the Israelites start singing. 

Note the amount of “stiffening” Adonai did to Pharaoh’s and the Egyptians’ hearts to force them to continue to pursue the Israelites into the Sea of Reeds. Adonai also broke the wheels of the Egyptians’ chariots so they couldn’t turn back, even when they wanted to, once they realized “(Adonai was) fighting for (the Israelites) against Egypt (14:25).” Sages say that the only one who survived the great deluge was Pharaoh himself to bear the disgrace of his defeat. Why then all of this death and demonstration? So that Adonai could “gain glory through Pharaoh and all his warriors, his chariots and his horsemen”? Really? 

One could legitimately say that the Egyptians got what was coming to them after enslaving the Israelites and killing their first-born sons. Still, killing hundreds of Egyptians just for glory? What if there were “righteous Gentiles” among the Egyptian soldiers? Even Adonai seems conflicted; The Talmud (Megillah 10b) contains the story that during the deluge, the angels wanted to sing songs but Adonai said “The work of my hands, the Egyptians, are drowning at sea, and you wish to say songs?” It seems as if there had to be a better way. 

This is a parsha that contains instructions for the first Shabbat and prayers that form a part of our Shabbat liturgy, Mi Chamocha, anyone? Still, it’s also a story of terror and redemption and shows that, without compromise, the result of obstinately held positions, is never good. I also wonder what happened to the jar of manna that was supposed “to be kept throughout the ages (Ex. 16:33).”May we all be open to alternative ways of resolving conflict that can alleviate harm. (Return to top.)

Yitro (Exodus 19:14-22) by Jackie Gelman

In this week’s Torah portion as the Israelites are taking their final days preparing to receive the Torah, Moses repeats God’s prescription to have people wash their clothes and to not go near Mt. Sinai, but he adds an additional warning not said by God to the men to “not go near a woman (Ex 19:14)” What I find striking about this additional phrase is that even assuming that the warning was for the sake of having both the men and women maintain ritual purity for the good of the community, by not addressing both the women and men directly Moses is taking away the womens’ agency as full participants in the revelation. While Moses may not have realized he was alienating women from the community the lesson of his action for today is still relevant. We all have a tendency to view the world from our own context and may not always take into account another person’s perspective. How can we train ourselves to have more empathy and take on another’s viewpoint? Perhaps we will create a world in which all are included as equal participants in our important communal moments. (Return to top.)

 Mishpatim (Exodus 23:6-25) by Dina Jacobs

The portion for this week is Mishpatim (Ex 23:6-25), meaning “laws”.  It is a detailed summary of the laws that Jews are required to follow to be in a covenant with God. One might view this as burdensome; why so many laws? Is it important to follow all of them? In return, however, God will send an angel to look out for those who follow the rules.  

I view this portion as a source of comfort. It is a setting of boundaries. Babies and children need boundaries, so do adults.  Babies often seek out the corners of the crib because they feel comfortable sleeping against “the boundary”; it is a reassuring presence. Parents need to set boundaries for children; they need structure to develop.  While parents sometimes feel mean saying no, setting this boundary is a necessary source of comfort for children. Those boundaries that parents set mean that children are loved and well-cared for.  As adults, we too require boundaries; without them we would have chaos and anarchy. If we pay our taxes, there our services that we get in return including education for our children, police, roads and other necessary infrastructure supports. 

I feel that this applies to Beth Israel as well. There are boundaries that we must adhere to in order to be a member of the community. Paying dues, contributing as we are able to the financial health of the community. It is important to volunteer when we are able. Bringing food to a potluck ensures that all of our community members are fed at events.  In return, the fruits of our labor our boundless. We are able to enjoy the support of an incredible community. After years of being a member at Beth Israel, it occurred to me that I needed this community to get by in life. This community has been there for me in good times and in difficult times, seeing me through those tough periods and rejoicing with me in happy times.  This community is my “guardian angel” that is referred to in this torah portion.  I didn’t understand when I was a new member (and for many years after that) what is required to run this community. I have a better sense now, and I know now how important it is for me to pitch in when I am able to keep this community going. I know that I cannot get by without this community and this community cannot get by without my contributions.  I am happy to be able to help in any small way that I can, because I know that I will in turn reap rewards from this community that are boundless. I know this with certainty as I have already reaped those rewards!  Thank you to all of you at BI; you keep this community running strong so that it can support all of us.  (Return to top.)

 Terumah (Exodus 26:31-27:4) by Nathan Sepinwall

In the Torah portion, we find a description of the construction and placement of the curtain before the holy of holies. I wonder if the curtain and all the detailed instructions about the sanctuary construction are really for God’s pleasure or rather to create a pleasing environment for the priests? I wonder if we really needed to spend that much time and resource creating such a complex sacred space? When we work to beautify our spaces today, maybe we can spend less time and energy on the physical environment and more time on making ourselves more “sacred” and fit for such spaces.

 Tetzaveh (Exodus 29:19-37) by Lois Deutsch
The section of Parshat Tetzaveh that we are reading this week focuses on the ritual of the ordination rituals of Aaron (and later his sons) to the priesthood. I do find it challenging when specific people get pigeonholed for ritual leadership. When I was a little girl I remember being perplexed when my close friend told me that in her large Catholic family she was slated to become a nun (I’m not sure if that happened!). I wondered if she really felt like she had any say in the matter. But, the section did get me thinking about different ways that we might take on a kind of sacred service leadership today. I have spent time tutoring children in Chester as part of an after school program. While this is not always easy — what kid wants to go study more after spending the day in school? — I have noticed that it feels particularly fulfilling to be part of a larger project of helping these young people advance their skills. And, I notice that all the tutors do a nice job of supporting each other before and after each week’s session. Perhaps this is a hidden teaching from this week’s parshah: it’s not just about what happens in the ordination ritual itself; but rather, it’s about being part of a larger group that is committed to sacred service together, that is calling itself to holiness. Like our ancestors in the Temple, may we each find ways to be part of a larger team of sacred service in our lives and help sustain holiness together.  (Return to top.)
 
Ki Tissa (Exodus 33:12-34:9) by Lisa & Matt deCamp 

The section of this week's Torah portion deals with the dramatic moment of the Israelite's transgression over the golden calf and Moses convincing God to allow the people to have a "do over" and not be destroyed. Moses uses a version of "what will the neighbors think?" argument by telling God that if God is not leading the Israelites it will be clear that they have lost favor. If we examine this interaction through the parental lens with God as the potential punishing "parent" and Moses (and the Israelites) as "child" then what do we make of this interaction? On the one hand, the Israelites -- like our children today - had free will to choose how to act and perhaps should have paid the consequences. (In some sense they did by the death and plague that followed the golden calf). But, perhaps God's listening to Moses argument and granting a do-over also points to the importance of putting ourselves in our kids shoes sometimes, of trying to understand their perspective, and ultimately ending up with a more flexible parenting response. Sometimes the right parenting response might be a willingness to change one's mind for the sake of relationship even if you know you are 'right'.  (Return to top.)

Vayakhel (Exodus 37:10-29) by Abby Grin
This week's Torah portion contains a description of the objects that were constructed for the inner sanctuary, including the acacia wood table that was overlaid with gold molding and had rings attached to the corners for transportation. I find the notion of the gold overlay to be an interesting detail. While the gold did not have much practical use in the desert, it did have an important ritual dimension of elevating the ordinary to the special or sacred; the gold also reminds the ritual practitioner that they are engaged in important work. While we may not have gold overlay tables lying around, I do think it's worth asking what serves as our reminder that things one does in the world as a volunteer or as part of your learning or work can also be sacred? What is your gold overlay? (Return to top.)
 
Pekudei Exodus 39:22-40:38) by Zoe Blank
This week's parsha Pekudei - which is also my bat mitzvah! - includes an inventory of all the items that were donated for the construction of the mishkan, the Tabernacle.  In the beginning, the Israelites were donating so much that Moses finally had to tell them that it was enough! People were putting so much effort into the sanctuary that they forgot about all the people that were in need. They used a lot of the money to make this Mishkan beautiful. In my opinion, I don’t think you should use all your extra money on trying to make a sacred place beautiful. A sanctuary is a place where you are supposed to connect to God through your heart and not entirely based on your surroundings. Even now, people will spend a lot of money to build or decorate a fancy building, but a big part of the Jewish religion is tzedakah. All the precious material that is put into too expensive building materials could've helped someone who couldn't even buy their meals. Perhaps today we can all think about how to create and maintain simple spaces where we can connect to God through our heart and also use our money and time to both help others. (Return to top.)